Thank you so much for not starting an argument and just adding some constructive dialogue!

By the way, we must be in the same area. We live in Conifer and I drive 285 all the time!
I previously owned a Lexus GX460. She sat on 2.5 inches of lift and 34s. I absolutely adored that vehicle, but it sucked for towing. Yes, I completely know that I created that problem with the 34 inch tires. I strongly considered re-gearing and adding lockers while I was at it, but I really liked the look of the new LC that was coming out and my wife and I decided to buy it because it checked all of our boxes and I kind of saw it as “forever vehicle”. I questioned the four-cylinder turbo, but in the end, I had so much trust in Toyota that I decided to get it. It truly did tow worlds better than the GX did right up until the failure.
I should have my buyback numbers any day now, and actually went down the rabbit hole of looking at vehicle replacements. BUT as of now nothing fits all of my needs as perfectly as the. Cruiser does and I am choosing to once again, put my trust in Toyota. I’m nervous though, I’m not gonna lie.
I went so far as to consider a tundra, a sequoia, a Grenadier, and even a new Defender. Yes, before anybody comments, I realize the problems with all of those vehicles and know how crazy this all sounds.
I guess in the end, this is a disappointing and upsetting process to be going through in a new vehicle and without asking, I was hoping for some conversation that might make me feel a little better about my choice.