Hey! I quickly generated this based on what’s available on the Owner’s Manual and what owners have shared based on their own reports. I sanity checked it, but will disclaim that I rarely tow with my J250 so am not experienced in this topic. Please validate for yourself for accuracy and against your own reasoning.
The source column says where each claim comes from:
- Toyota: the owner's manual or an official Toyota document
- LCF: an owner report on Land Cruiser Forum
- Tacoma: an owner report from the Tacoma forum (same TNGA-F platform and same TDA system)
Source documents
Short answers
| Question | Answer | Source |
| What does Tow/Haul do? | It changes engine, transmission, and steering behavior for towing. The manual doesn't link it to any of the 8 systems. | Toyota: p.234 |
| Owners confirm it doesn't turn off the sensors | LCF: backup sensor thread, Tow Button complaint |
| It cancels itself in L4, Drive Mode, or MTS. Turning it on also cancels Eco and Sport. | Toyota: p.235, p.436 |
| It keeps the engine running at stops, which costs fuel economy | LCF: Tow/Haul mode; Houghton 15k review |
| What turns off automatically? | Plugging in the 7-pin turns off the rear parking sensors, RCD, and PKSB | Toyota: p.212 footnotes |
| Can the truck do it for me? | Partly. Trailer Drive Assist (TDA) does when a trailer is detected on the factory brake controller. A prompt appears on the dash and you accept it. TDA then turns off LTA, LCA, PDA, and Emergency Driving Stop. LDA gives alerts only, parts of PCS are switched off, and DRCC stays available. | Toyota: p.266–267; MY25 excerpt |
| Tacoma owners report TDA stays on until you answer "No" to the prompt after unhooking | Tacoma: 4GTaco TDA thread |
| Early 2024 owners said the truck didn't recognize a trailer at all. That was probably before the TDA software update. | LCF: New from UK, Towing and adaptive cruise |
The 8 systems: how to turn each off, and whether it stays off after a restart
| System | How to turn it off | After a restart | Source |
| LTA | LTA button, right side of the wheel | Manual doesn't say. Owners say it stays off. TDA also blocks it. | Toyota: p.284; LCF: Lane Keep Assist |
| LDA | Dash settings menu | Manual doesn't say. Owners say it stays off. | Toyota: p.293, p.661; LCF: Lane Keep Assist |
| DRCC | Don't select it. Use regular cruise control from the mode switch instead. The manual warns not to use full-speed DRCC when towing. | You pick it each drive, so nothing resets | Toyota: p.213, p.318 |
| BSM | Dash settings menu | Turns back ON every start | Toyota: p.331–332 |
| Intuitive Parking Assist | Rear sensors go off automatically with the 7-pin | If you turn it off manually, it stays off | Toyota: p.340 |
| RCTA | Dash settings menu | Turns back ON every start | Toyota: p.346 |
| RCD | Automatic with the 7-pin | Would turn back on at a restart, but the 7-pin covers it | Toyota: p.212, p.352 |
| PKSB | Automatic with the 7-pin. There's also a manual button on the lower left of the dash. | If you turn it off manually, it stays off | Toyota: p.356–357 |
| PCS (not on the list) | Dash settings menu | Turns back ON every start | Toyota: p.281; LCF: PCS default off |
Why it matters: a UK owner reports that leaving LTA and LDA on caused trailer sway (
LCF: New from UK). Owners also say that once LTA is off, DRCC works with a trailer plugged into the 7-pin (
LCF: Towing and adaptive cruise). Toyota's p.213 warning still says not to use full-speed DRCC when towing.
Checklist
One-time setup
- Break-in: no towing for the first 500 miles. For the next 500 miles of towing, stay under 45 mph and avoid full throttle. p.222
- Weight limits: p.212–216
- Trailer: 6,000 lb max
- Unbraked trailer: 1,650 lb max
- Tongue weight: 9–11% of trailer weight
- Over 2,000 lb: sway control device required
- Over 5,000 lb: weight-distributing hitch required
- Over 3,000 lb: two axles recommended
- Total weight of truck plus trailer must stay under the GCWR for your model, listed on p.215
- Brake controller: p.455–457
- Select the brake type first. This resets gain to 0, and a gain of 0 means no trailer braking at all.
- Set gain to 5.0 as a starting point.
- At 20–25 mph, push the manual slider all the way.
- Adjust gain until it's just below the point where the trailer wheels lock up.
- Owners say this setup isn't clear in the manual. LCF: tiny turbo tow
Before each trip
p.211,
p.213,
p.220
- Tire pressures on truck and trailer, trailer sitting level, ball height matches the coupler, cargo secured, mirrors legal
- Safety chains attached, lights tested. Recheck after a short drive.
- The 7-pin sits right next to the exhaust, so route the cable away from it. Camp-Inn Forum
Every time you start the truck
- Accept the TDA prompt on the dash
- LTA off, LDA off
- Turn BSM and RCTA off again, since they come back on every start
- Use regular cruise control, not DRCC
- Press Tow/Haul. Shifting to L4 or picking a drive mode cancels it.
- If you use driver profiles (My Settings), check the settings after switching drivers, since profiles can overwrite them
Driving
p.212,
p.220–
222
- 65 mph max, or lower if posted or if your trailer's limit is lower
- Following distance: one truck-and-trailer length per 10 mph
- On downhills, don't leave it in D. Use M with gear 6 or lower.
- If the trailer sways: hold the wheel straight, ease off the gas gradually, and don't brake
- When parking: chock the wheels of both the truck and the trailer
After the trip
- Retighten the hitch ball and bracket bolts after about 600 miles of towing. p.222
- Pull the hitch ball when you're not towing. p.217
- Turn everything back on, and answer "No" to the TDA prompt.
- Towing puts the truck on Toyota's special operating conditions maintenance schedule, which adds front/rear differential and transfer case oil changes, propeller shaft lubrication and bolt checks, and chassis bolt torque checks. Toyota Warranty & Maintenance Guide, maintenance chart, footnote 9.
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